1 thought on “Episode 12: 10 Worldly Myths About Sex in Marriage”

1. Jared,

   I’m unable to load your video because the internet service in my area is weak.

   I would however like to know the content and would love a written paraphrased version if you have the time.

   I think much of the trouble stems very deep especially to those that had parents that weren’t emotionally connected. They didn’t even hear of such a phrase and so they never had the capacity to mentor their own kids.

   Many times “true” love is taken out of the equation.

   So that left society to mentor kids (mainly boys) into an unhealthy locker room/porn like mentality how to please a woman or themselves. Schools didn’t emphasize connection either, they just emphasized birth control. (instead of the romantic mental and physical intimacy that is described in Song of Solomon)

   I even think emphasizing a couple living together to get married is a bad idea, (judging by all the divorce I have witnessed even in churches) I would in fact emphasize if they don’t love each other, they shouldn’t get married, but in fact break up before the woman gets pregnant.

   Connection is less complicated to achieve than one might think, it starts off communicating in a civilized manner, without flipping out, yelling and force feeding one another’s will on each other, which is a lot faster in discovering compromises, while at the same time nurturing and stimulating one another’s mind, at the same time. (and getting inside one another’s mind)

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